Thursday, July 30, 2009

Trey Songz Speaks about His Porn Obsession, Catching an STD, what he likes in the bedroom, and His Upcoming Album



Ready is about to drop in August right?
Well, we pushed it back to September, because since Drake isn't putting "Successful" on his album, I'm going to go back to it and change it up a bit to have it on mine.

What is this I hear about a Trey Songz and Fabolous tour?
The Fabolous and Trey Songz tour is just me and Fab talking. We're going to see what happens. We actually developed a good working relationship for the past year and a half. From the “In Ya Phone” record to the “Last Time” record that he just did for his album. So we probably going to do something together for my album. I just sent him something, so I think that will be a good look. And we’ve been hanging out too. I came to his party at the Velvet room and he came to a couple of parties of mine. The ladies would like it.

Let's jump right in it. You are a proud supporter of porn?
Yeah. I think porn is cool.

Any recommendations?
Any recommendations on porn? Go to 4228, xxx.videos.com and freeporn.com. I don’t visit them frequently, but that's three different sites. How could you go wrong?

You prefer free over paying?
Not necessarily. Sometimes I pay for it in the room. Because when I was younger I used to sneak and buy DVDs.

What's your favorite type?
I think that porn is a way to broaden your horizons as far as sex is concerned. I remember when I first started watching porn my favorite porn star was Lacey Duvalle, Lindy Foxx, and I like the free will of porn all in itself.

But some things look better than they feel.
Yea there are some things that happen in porn that some girls can never do in real life (laughs), you know what I mean, unless they are porn stars. I think that’s the cool part about it. It’s like ‘damn, that’s crazy.’

You found that out the hard way, huh.
Nah (laughs).

Do you prefer when it when you are alone or when you are with your girl?
Either.

Are you apart of the Mile High Club?
No, I never participated in any mile high activities.

Hmmm. I wasn't expecting that.
Oh, you weren't expecting that?

Do you get some in every city you visit?
No, not every city.

What city has the best girls?
Well I’ve been doing this for four or five years now so for the most part when I come to a city I already know someone there.

You have someone in every city?
Well that doesn’t mean I get some in every city. It means for the most part anywhere I go I know a woman that I have some sort of a friendship with. I wouldn’t necessarily say that I’m fond of groupies for the most part.

What’s your favorite city to visit?
It would be New York and Miami. Every time I go to New York, it’s crazy how people are in the street all night. The city never sleeps. Even though New York ain’t really what it used to be as far as musically. It’s still one of the greatest cities in the world to visit even when I’m working, doing an interview, or a meeting, or a TV show, or this radio show, or the studio, there’s always something to do, especially in the summertime. I love New York in the summer. Miami is beautiful — the weather, the women, the beach — it’s carefree out there. It’s like a TV show or something.

What's the difference between the chick you make your girl, and someone who's just a jump?
My girl gets love. A jump gets sex.

But how do you decide if you're going to make her your main girl or not?
Character traits. Once you kick it with a person long enough you start see what they are around for.

And what are your favorite things to use in the bedroom?
My tongue and my penis (laughs).

Allllright. You don’t use toys?
No, I have before, but I ain't really into it.

No food or nothing?
I mean I ain't really into all that either. I can get into that, but it ain't nothing I’m really into. I save those things for somebody special.

You said that you are not into fetishes, but do you role play?
I will and I have with my girlfriend. I think it has to be [with your girlfriend]. You shouldn’t just do that with anybody.

You kiss girls that are not your girlfriend?
It depends.

Is there anything you leave for just your girl? Or that you would if you had one?
Well if I had a girl she would be the only one getting everything.

Have you cheated before?
Yea.

Would you cheat again?
Well if I get into a relationship I know the consequences and I know what a relationship calls for. I don’t think I would get into one unless I was ready.

Can you tell when a girl is faking?
No.

Are girls really that good at faking?
I feel like I’m really great at sex.

So girls don’t fake with you.
No I’m saying I can’t tell if they do.

With all this sex, you ever take a trip to the clinic?
Yes.

You ever got anything before?
When I was like 16 or 17, this girl gave me crabs. It was the most uncomfortable shit in the world. I was confused because ain't nobody know I was having sex. So I was like dam what the fuck is going on? I even had to cut all my hair off and I had to eventually tell somebody. And had to go to the doctor.

How long did you have them for then? Just a couple days.

Did you know the girl that gave it to you?
Yea I did.

And you told her?
Yea I told her. It was wild experience. We were young. And that was kind of crazy and it was the worst so when I told her she tried to deny it. And I just basically stopped talking to her.

That's the only thing you've ever gotten?
Yea.

It taught you to practice safe sex.
Yea I keep condoms everywhere I go.

You were telling me that your mother gives you condoms.
Yea that was back when I first started hitting the road she would pack my bag and she would pack these 12-packs Magnums. And she always tells me to be safe.

And when you run out?
I have before but my dudes always keep condoms, too.

You once said that you can’t make love to everybody. That there are all these girls that think because you’re an R&B singer that you can make love to them.
It’s just not gonna happen.

Has a girl ever got mad or says she’s disappointed?
Sometimes it happens. But you can’t be looking everybody in they eye and slow grinding with candles on in every situation. That’s why I make it clear on certain songs that that’s not gonna always happen, like you hear on some of my mixtapes. It ain't gonna be love making in every scenario. I’m willing to compromise to give a woman her fantasy. But [has a girl ever gotten mad] because I won't make love to her? Nah.

Craziest thing someone has done after having sex with you.
Probably cry. Women are weird (laughs).

Thanks. What did you do?
I was confused like why are you crying? She had something going on in her life you know. She was like “I can't believe I’m doing this.” I comforted her though. I think the thing that’s important between men in entertainment that do have sex with women that they don’t really know is that they do treat them with respect. I believe in a lot of scenarios — not to speculate and I know what happened like with the Tupac and Mike Tyson case — when you get a woman in a room and you treat her like a piece of trash all she got to do is say you raped her and she can very easily bring you back to earth. So I treat everyone with respect.

Is there ever a girl you've wanted that you couldn't have?
Yea that happens every once in awhile. Usually when I can’t have what I want, I don’t take that.

You don't fight for her?
Somewhat.